I can hear every guy in here"riiiiight?"
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A man who has his own life built and sources of income established before settling down has to be aware of the dangers of dating people who may like him more because of the benefits that come with knowing him. This weighs on me when dating people who make and have less and makes me think the field is not level and that I'm at an unfair advantage of power in the relationship which puts me at a disadvantage for evaluating sincerity.
I don't want to be the knight in shining armor. I want a powerful, accomplished, hardworking equal. I don't want to be some ones last & only chance or hope. Only chance at survival, or the only thing that is holding someone together and their whole vision of their future from early in a relationship that is otherwise going well. I want to date someone who wants me but doesn't need me. Wants to spend time together but has a full and fulfilling life when I'm not around. This doesn't mean I don't want a growing and stronger relationship, but want to start on equal footing and know it isn't desperation driving attraction. I'm an fairly-decent-adult and I know that, but there is a nagging doubt I'd love to avoid when going in to a serious relationship.
I live within my means and have been long working on a strong foundation. My net worth is around $500k. And I make over $100k a year. I'd like a girl in this accomplishment range. Preferably frugal and Alaskan type but, ya pays your money and yas takes your chances!